Wednesday, December 28, 2022

My favorite books from 2022

 Of all the books of 2022 I'd like to call out the ones I enjoyed the most or consider important enough to mention


Best Fiction of 2022

(notice that this are books that I read in 2022, it doesn't mean the book was *published* in 2022)


Patternist Series by Octavia Butler






Octavia Butler is probably the most under-rated science fiction writer of all time. Every thing she has written is freaking good. 

Seed to Harvest starts out with two immortal beings that meet in the plains of Africa in the 16th century, then they travel to America before the Revolutionary War. The first book of the series starts as the story of a power struggle between our two protagonists. The thing that stands out is that as the series progresses the books and characters start to change in a way where each book could stand on its own until the end where it all comes together. 

My favorite thing about this book is the depth of the characters, there are no good or bad people, just people who act according to their views, goals and fears. It's an excellent exploration of power and gender. 

Billy Summers by Stephen King



Reading Stephen King is like watching a movie, you sit back, relax, grab some popcorn or a snack and let him take you on a ride. The main character was a Marine that was deployed to Ramadi, Iraq in the year 2004 and for some weird reason I can relate to that. The plot and people are good, and yeah, I cried at the end of the book, don't say I didn't warn you. 

The Lincoln Highway by Amor Towles





This is a story set in America in the 1950's two boys go on a road trip in search of their mother. This is like reading the classic Odyssey but it's in the States instead of Ancient Greece. Gorgeous writing, good characters, the plot is okay but the point is the journey, not the destination. 


Most Thought-Provoking books from 2022


The 1619 Project created by Nikole Hannah Jones



A collection of different essays that expands on the NYT series.  This book caused conservatives to lose their shit because it dared to question the established myths that we tell ourselves about America. 1619 explores the legacy of Slavery in the United States and explores how much it shaped our country, our history, our culture. 


The Contrarian: Peter Thiel and Silicon Valley's Pursuit of Power




Who is Peter Thiel? That's the question this book attempts to answer. It does a good job at it, but what makes it thought provoking for me is that Silicon Valley has this reputation of being run by a bunch of hippie bleeding-heart liberals and the truth is quite the opposite. 


How the World Really Works: The Science Behind How We Got Here and Where We're Going




This book confronts the current big issues of our time and offer the reader a sober look at reality. Where does the energy we consume come from and where does it go to. What does concrete and steel production have to do with climate change (spoiler: a lot) 

I must say that this book is a bit depressing, there are a lot of complicated problems with no easy solutions. This is the stuff that doesn't get talked about as much on the daily news because it doesn't have catchy sound bites, but it's worth knowing about. I'm sure John Oliver in HBO does a good job of covering these type of things. Anyway, this is an important book, if you want to be an informed citizen, you should know what's in this book. 


Most Useful books of 2022 (For me anyway)

Peak Mind: Find your Focus. Own Your Attention. 



How to pay attention and be present in the moment. The answer: A tried and scientifically proven way to improve mindfulness: Using Meditation.

Fun fact about this book, I picked it up on impulse when I was at Chicago O'Hare Airport, the opening paragraph caught my eye and I bought it and did not put it down until I was done with it. I really liked the author's voice, it's like she's having a conversation about this stuff with you. 

I must say that I can struggle with paying attention and being in the moment, but without this book I would be much, much worse. 

Success Under Stress: Powerful Tools for Staying Calm, Confident and Productive When the Pressure's On. 



This is one of those self-help books, so I got this book for free, there was like a big stack of them at the Blackfoot building in Seattle back when it housed the EC2 team (back when I worked for EC2) I picked it up, started reading it, went like, meh, and moved on. However, I picked it up again after reading the book on paying attention. I started to slowly read it and do all the exercises in the book. There are a lot of sections that I still think are BS, but there are some gold nuggets in there disguised as tautologies. I like the section about having clarity of purpose and understanding one's own Horizon point. 

Tuesday, December 27, 2022

It's 2022 and I'm back! Again

 Hey, so I've decided to go back to writing on my blog. Writing here has helped me sort things out for myself, I've been going back to my old posts and I must say that I'm glad I didn't just delete the blog. 

This thing here is just going to be me putting whatever comes to my head, there's no thread or order or purpose other than to help me organize what's going on in my life at the moment. 

If you are still reading this, um, thank you? 

Anyway, since my last post a lot of stuff has happened so I wanted to write one of those posts to catch up on the latest. 


Let me go in chronological order

2016

Trump's victory in the 2016 election was a surprise. I didn't think he was going to win, so I spent a lot of time and energy trying to make sense of it. How did it happen? I read a lot of different explanations but after a lot of digging, and a lot of reading I understood the obvious reason. It's racism. Maybe I should explain myself, list the books make the argument, I might or might not. If I do, it would be entirely for my own benefit, I know better than to think I can change someone's mind on the internet about a subject as touchy and explosive as this. 

I have put a reading list at the end of this post if you are interesting in knowing more about how racism got Trump elected. 


2017

Jolyne came out as trans to us. It was not easy or simple for any of us, but our first reaction was "we will love you and support you no matter what" and that was that. I set out to understand everything first before making decisions. 



In 2017 we had a big trip all of us went to Europe. We flew to Spain, visited Madrid, Toledo and Barcelona. Then we took a train to Paris and finally London. 

During the trip the Unite the Right Rally happened in Charlottesville, as well as the attack in Las Ramblas Barcelona, I was meeting with my cousin in Barcelona in Las Ramblas the night before the attacks happened. 


2018

In 2018 I started working for Amazon. This is something that I had wanted for a long time. It felt like a big win for me. I have a lot to say about working there, it's most definitely the best job I've ever had but it's the most challenging.  

In the summer Martha and I took a big trip to Budapest. 






2019

In 2019 we bought a house! Buying a house in Seattle is hard. We got lucky we found something we wanted after years of trying and failing we found the perfect house. Well, nothing is perfect but this is the only place we saw that we both said "this is it, this is the one" as soon as we walked in. 

In 2019 we got Petunia. I didn't want a dog, but now this dog pretty much owns me. 



Amazon sent me on work trips to Vancouver, Canada, Toronto, Madrid for a couple weeks and Brisbane, Australia. 

Martha planned an awesome trip for the whole family to Munich during Octoberfest. 



2020

We started the year with a trip to Copenhagen with a brief stay in Iceland late February early March, this is right before the pandemic started in earnest in the US. We thought we were going to be stranded in Denmark but we made it back and then Covid started. 

This is the year I decided to learn to ski so that I could go with Gaby. 

During the pandemic I made bread, beer and learned to mix cocktails. 

Jolyne started her transition after months of therapy, the change in her personality was like night and day. It's like she is living her life as her true self and wow I have absolutely zero doubt that it was the right decision.  

2021

Went to Jackson Hole WY during the winter break. 

Went to Orlando FL for 2 weeks during summer break

At work I started working for a new team. I became part of AWS Fargate. 

In November I went to Fort Lauderdale thanks to my sister the city of Tamarac put my name on the wall of Tamarac residents that served overseas, although technically my zip code was 33071 when I was deployed, it's close enough. My name is engraved in the park at University and Southgate. My sister is big into Girls Scouts so there were some people there from her troop. I can't say enough nice things about my sister she's been nothing but nice to me (well, most of the time) since forever. Thank you Caro. 




2022

Winter break we went to Park City Utah to ski



In April Amazon sent me to Dublin, Ireland I took Martha with me it was a good trip, a few days of being a tourist and then work. 

In the summer we want back to my homeland, no, not Venezuela, Florida silly! We went down to Disney World for a few days. 

In October it was my 20 year Anniversary. I am the luckiest man alive for having this amazing woman as my wife. 



In the fall I almost burned myself out working. I was doing too much at once. 

My dad was diagnosed with a very treatable form of cancer, I freaked out anyway. 

Wife suggested I take a month off work. So I took November off to spend time my family. The outcome was the most memorable vacation of my life. I had an awesome time disconnecting from the office and connecting with my family and with Florida in general. I gotta say the vacation was too good because it has taken me a while to get back into the normal rhythm of life at work in Seattle.  




Now it's December and it's back to normal life. I have my personal goals and things I'd like to do next. 

1. Improve as a person. Yeah it's sound corny or whatever, but it's the truth. I can always be a better person, a better father, husband, brother, co-worker and citizen. My intention is to always strive to grow. 

2. Professionally, I want to get promoted, I want to become a Principal Engineer at Amazon. 

3. I want to write. Write more, write better. 

A brief Summary of my Readings

I read a few books since 2016. I have done what I like to call "Rabbit hole explorations"

If you are interested in my full reading list, you should check out my GoodReads and friend me there. 

Understanding Racism and Trump Reading List:

- The 1619 Project: A New Origin Story 

- White Fragility: Why It's so Hard for White People to talk about Racism

- Fantasyland: How America Went Haywire: A 500-Year History

- Fire and Fury: Inside the Trump White House

- Fear: Trump in the White House

- Why we're polarized

- What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker: A Memoir in Essays

- Born A Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood

- Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents

- So You Want to Talk About Race

- The Cruelty Is the Point: The Past, Present, and Future of Trump's America

- Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America

- On Tyranny: Twenty Lessons from the Twentieth Century

- How Democracies Die: What History Reveals About Our Future

- Culture Warlords: My Journey Into the Dark Web of White Supremacy

Silicon Valley and Capitalism Rabbit hole:

TODO (I'll add a separate blog post)

How to improve myself Rabbit Hole: 

TODO (I'll add a separate blog post)

Understanding Trans* reading list :

TODO (I'll add a separate blog post)


Okay, I've run out of time, rather than set this aside to get back to it on some later time, I am going to just publish what I have. I'll finish the reading lists some other time.