Thursday, September 12, 2024

My Review of Bright Young Women by Jessy Knoll on GoodReads

Bright Young WomenBright Young Women by Jessica Knoll
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This Novel is the story of the horrible murders committed at FSU in 1978 by the first famous serial killer told through the eyes of Pamela, the president of the sorority and eye witness.

This is a book that I couldn't put down. It's written from the POV of two women, one in Seattle in 1974 and the other one Florida in 1978. I really loved the fact that the serial killer's name is never mentioned in the book, he's just referred to as "The Defendant" It calls out the fact the this guy destroyed the lives of multiple families and was rewarded by becoming a celebrity while the names of the victims are forgotten. I liked that it debunked the myth that the killer was an "evil genius" and replaced it with the reality that he was just a mediocre incel that hated women. This books shows how misogyny feels, I felt the frustration and the anger Pamela felt while reading through her ordeal.
There's a lot of depth here. I love it when a book shows me new perspective, when it changes the way I see things. This is one of those books.



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Sunday, July 21, 2024

My review of Red Pill by Hari Kunzru on Good Reads

Red PillRed Pill by Hari Kunzru
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This novel was not a feel-good read. It was the opposite of that, actually. The timing for me didn't help, I started reading it right before the assassination attempt July 13th and finished reading it moments before I learned that Biden dropped out of the race.

On the surface this novel is about a writer who goes to a writing retreat in Berlin, he is trying to publish a book but he can't write. Then he becomes obssessed with this cop-show called "Blue Lives" then things get weird. The vibe of the whole book is an anxious, paranoid one. Scary, but not in a fun way, more like a depressive way.

Under the hood, there's a lot to unpack, lots of literary references to writers I had never heard about, which was cool, lots of historic facts and most of all a big message told through metaphors and hints. I enjoyed the thought-provoking one-liners that made me question my beliefs and points of views.

The themes of the book revolve around fascism, racism and political power. The author doesn't preach, is not on the nose, it's subtle, but there if you know what to look for.

I took off a star because the story, well, I just did not enjoy the last part of the book, not that it was bad, I just didn't like it. There was an attempt to tie it together, but it didn't work for me.

JV

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Monday, July 15, 2024

My Review of "Holly" by Stephen King on GoodReads

Holly (Holly Gibney #3)Holly by Stephen King
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This book was a fun read, if you call Stephen King's brand of horror fun. I do like it, I enjoy SK's commentary on American culture. This book is set and written in the Covid era.
I don't want to spoil it, but besides the obvious opinions given in the book, I thought the real monster in the book was the process of getting old.

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Saturday, June 29, 2024

Notes from our last trip to Paris

 Oh Paris, the romantic city of lights! What is not to love about this beautiful place?  Whether is the elegant architecture, their famous monuments, the food, the people, the art, the bon-vivant lifestyle, there are many good reasons to visit France. Not everything is tres bon, these are my notes of lessons learned during this trip. 



I recommend:

Cooking classes by La Cuisine Paris

We learned how to make croissants and baguettes thanks to Eline our experienced, charismatic and opinionated French chef. The classes are 3 hours long but totally worth it. I got inspired to start making bread at home again. Making croissants is a lot of work, but making baguettes is not. I have a vial of poolish fermenting as we speak. 



Getting out of the city for the day

We took a day trip to Normandy to see the history Omaha Beach, the landing zone for the Allied forces on D-day. We had a British ex-soldier as our guide. I learned a lot that day and Normandy is quite picturesque. The weather was wonderful and the local Cider was tasty and refreshing. 





We also went to Monet's gardens in Giverny.  This is a must for gardeners and art lovers alike. The trip was pleasant and we had great company and a very nice guide. 




I loved:

The hidden Paris cycling tour 




I must admit that I wasn't too thrilled at first, the thought of cycling through Paris traffic (more on that in a bit) on a hot day or worse in the rain was not high on my list to do's. I kept an open mind and went with it and oh my god I am so glad I did. There is not one thing in particular that I can say did it for me, it was a combination of all the things, our tour guide Hanna was funny and informative, the sights and the locations were hidden gems that I wouldn't not have noticed or visited unless someone says something about it. I don't know if this is something I'd recommend to everyone though, you can get seriously hurt biking in Paris. However, I totally loved getting around the city on a bike. I would bike everywhere if I lived here. 

link to tour


The upgraded suite at the Hotel Lancaster



Airbnb is my experience is always hit-or-miss. The price point is better compared to staying at a hotel, we stayed at an Airbnb but we had some issues, the place smelled weird, like a musty-sour smell, the owners really tried to make it right but we never figured out where the smell came from. I was not comfortable for other reasons the layout of the place was weird and the closet space was limited in our bedroom, I was forced to live out of my suitcase so I wasn't too happy, we felt we were not getting our money's worth. My wife (the real MVP) found us a good room at this hotel and damn, it was nice! we loved the room, the service, the ambiance, it doesn't hurt that we got a nice upgrade because of Expedia. 

link to Hotel Lancaster's website


Tired:

Too many (other) tourist

Yes, I'm aware. One tourist going to a touristy place annoyed that there are other tourists there. It usually doesn't bother me because I know what to expect. There are some things worth seeing regardless of how many other tourists are there. Other times too many people there will take away from the experience. For example, what's the point of going to a "peaceful quiet park" if there are ten thousand other visitors on the trail? That said I was annoyed by other people's BO. I don't want to smell stranger's body odors or cigarette smoke when I'm trying to eat.  The Louvre and the Orsay museums were crowded but that's to be expected. The sidewalks at Champs-Elysee is what makes shopping there especial IMO, so it's not always bad. 

Driving there

I'm married to a hard-core badass woman. She does not fear driving in foreign lands, it must be the New Yorker in her. So we rented a car the first week we were here. This made it easy to get around outside the city, we were able to go to the airport and pick up and drop off my mom (she spent a few days with us) however, driving here is not for the faint of heart. Making a left turn is a Hobessian struggle where it's every man for themselves, there are no rules, just survival of the fittest ( and quickest) cutting someone off is not rude, it's essential to getting around as no-one will help you. One time we made the mistake of parking at the Louvre and expecting to drive back to the Airbnb in the 6th district during rush hour at 5 PM. A 1.5 mile trip took 90 minutes and that's by me aggressively driving and weaving through traffic. Since it was just my mom and I in the car, I took off my rule-following model driver "hat" off and instead put on my "driving a Hummer in Iraq" mode. I drove like my life depended on it. We made it, but, at what cost? 


Dirty Subway Stations

 I mean, we've been to subways in New York, so what was I expecting? The problem is that our trip to Tokyo showed me that we don't have to live in dirty cities, but maybe I should calibrate my expectations, right? Anyway, it is what it is, the subway stations smell like urine. But at least the trains run often, the most you'd wait is 3 minutes at a station. 


Surprised:

WWII History of France. 

I was a bit dissapointed hearing the details of the Vichy regime in WWII.  The French people over-emphasize the role of the French Resistance and Charle's de Gaulle's role in it. The French Government's collaboration with the Nazis is a complex topic and it's not discussed with the same frankness as the German Gov. It could be worse, there are some places where they erect statues and monuments to racist, losing traitors and call it "heritage" 


Underated

- French bread

- French coffee

- French Comics (according to my oldest daughter)

- French bookstores. (Shakespeare Co is an exception,  I love that place but it's now too popular, too many other English-Speaking book lovers in a small place is not cozy, it's claustrophobic) 


Overrated

French Restaurants

Maybe it was bad luck, or the price of ignorance, but we ate a lot of overpriced mediocre food with bad service. Maybe we had unrealistic expectations. I mean, we had really good meals, but overall I think that the cost to quality ration was low compared to other places. (Copenhagen, Buenos Aires, Tokyo) 


Other note-worthy things to mention

Disneyland



We love Disney, so we go to the park. I liked it and had a good time, but if you've been to other Disney World parks in Orlando or Anaheim you are not missing out a lot. Some spots are exact replicas of Disney World. That said, we went and had a grand time. 

Photo Shoot



For me, this was a special treat. We had a session with a professional photographer to take family portraits. My youngest and my wife packed these gorgeous dresses. We took photos at the Eiffel Tower, Luxemborg Gardens and the Louvre. We were turning a lot of heads, specially my 17 year old daughter. People were asking her and us what was the occasion. We had lots of people saying "brava" and "tres belle" to her. It was a lovely moment. I'm glad we've taken these photos. This is a once in a lifetime thing. 
Photographer: Rachel Calvo

My mom



My wife suggested we invite my mom to come with us. I called my mom and invited her literally 3 weeks before the trip. This was a dream come true to her. I am glad we were able to do that for her. 

My family



This was a good time for all four of us to do a trip like this. I know that pretty soon we are going to have an empty nest. We are making an effort to create good memories for the girls. 

My wife.




My lovely wife turned 40. This was a special trip for us. This was good. I'm glad we did this. I'm very grateful and lucky for this trip






My Review of "Wondering Starts" by Tommy Orange on Goodreads

Wandering StarsWandering Stars by Tommy Orange
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This book is both a sequel and prequel to Tommy Orange's last novel before this one "There, there"

Just like "there, there" the story is not always in chronological order and it's narrated by different characters. At first it's hard to know how each character is connected to one another or the story. I was a little lost at times because of that. This book throws bits and pieces of history and insights about the lives of Native Americans in small chunks. I learned about the Sandy Creek Massacre and was a little disturbed to learn that the same unit that killed women and children in Colorado in the 19th Century was there in Iraq fighting with us in Ramadi, the good ol'd 3rd Calvary Division "brave rifles" from Fort Carlson Colorado. It made me think about how we all grew up idolizing and playing cowboys and Indians.

I could not help to think about my ancestors in Venezuela, like most people from Latin America we are a mixture of European and Native America blood ( as well as African) I personally am 1/3 Native and 2/3 European. Yet I know nothing about my Native heritage. I grew up thinking that my people are the sons and daughters of Spain. All traces of what was there before the Spanish colonized us is gone, totally erased, like it happened in the past and whatever happened has nothing to do with the present. Tommy Orange says nah, screw that, the past is not gone, we're still here, we are often ignored but this is our land and our people still live.

I did not feel good reading all this, it was not entertainment, it was not a happy read, it was something that calls for reflection and meditation. My thing is, so we read this, then what, what can we do? Learn from our history so it doesn't repeat? I wish. Maybe I'm jaded, but we Americans are pretty damn good at ignoring the parts of our history that don't feel good, that blemishes the idealized myths of the birth of our nations. We built our country on stolen land stained with the blood of their first occupants then we write the history to make it look like we were heroes.

Maybe there's another less depressing way to bring this up? like, I enjoyed reading "The Only Good Indians" by Stephen Graham Jones. You can get a lot of knowledge that way, this book doesn't sugar coat anything. If that's how you like it, please do read it.

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My Review of "You like it Darker" by Stephen King on Goodreads

You Like It DarkerYou Like It Darker by Stephen King
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This collection of short stories by Stephen King consists of tales of "regular people" (American, middle-class, straight white males, mostly) placed into highly unusual situations. In these stories the main character finds himself figuring out a dark, crazy and scary "things". This book contains stories about invading aliens, exploring aliens, immortal vampires, gangsters, dumb criminals, psycho-killers, ghosts, mad scientists, violent animals and of course: Florida.

When it comes to telling a good story Stephen King is the GOAT. I forgot how much I enjoy reading his works. He will put you in the dark corners of his imagination and you will like it. Why because you like it darker of course.

10/10 Recommend it for a good time.


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Saturday, June 01, 2024

My Review of "The Road" by Cormac McCarthy on GoodReads

The RoadThe Road by Cormac McCarthy
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

A man is on the road with his boy. The world ended long ago.
This novel hits you with raw power. Brilliantly narrated with amazing prose and dialogue that shows you a whole world with just a few words. This is not a feel-good, wholesome happy book, but it's worth reading. Glad I picked it up.

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Wednesday, April 24, 2024

Takeways from our trip to Japan

 





As I'm sitting in our hotel room passing time before heading out to the airport, I started thinking, what's my takeway from this trip? How do I feel? Do I recommend Japan as a place to visit?

Well, I feel rested, energized and ready to get back to the daily grind of work and daily home life. Not that I am complaining but it's nice to have a break. 

If I were to sum up the last 2 weeks in one word I would say: Impressed. 

I was delighted to experience this place, for real it was amazing. These are the 3 categories


Things I learned

Japanese Culture and History

The first thing I noticed about Japan is how clean, and orderly everything is. Their Airport, Train Stations, and Public Spaces are thought out and organized. The train station and subway stations are clearly marked so that you know where to stand when boarding and onboarding the train. People here follow the rules and it's the opposite of chaos. People are totally silent in the train, the only people making noise are the foreigners (mostly Americans) who apparently don't have the ability to read the room and be quiet. There are tons of customs and social protocols, which I got a pass for most of them since I am also a clueless American. I did make the effort to learn and respect their rules, I am a visitor after all. Whether I want to or not, I represent America to the people who see me. I was a bit peeved when I learned that tattoos are a big no-no for public pools and baths, thankfully you're fine if you are able to cover up. I had to hide my ooorah marine corp tat. 






The Japanese have an refined taste for beauty. This was the thing I enjoyed the most about this trip. The architecture, food, visual art, music they all show a deep appreciation about things beautiful. It's freaking amazing. 

World War II is somewhat taboo to bring up. The museums do mention it and their stance is to learn from the past and not deny it or hide it. 

The people here are mostly isolated, most people in Japan have never left the country, and if they did, they travel in big groups, as a result, most people (outside of Tokyo and Kyoto) have never seen foreigners. This is a double edge sword, the people here love their country and do not want outsiders to come "ruin it" for them. At the same time, declining birth rates creates a labor vacuum that gets filled with laborers from outside Japan. This is a dilemma for the country. 

Overall, I am impressed with the way things are done here, great results but the group thinking ('We' comes before 'me') has a price. Japan has one of the highest suicide rates in the world. 

The biggest take away from me is a deeper appreciation of the Japanese Art and their way of life. 

Food, Food, Food



Sushi, good fancy sushi, and cheap ordinary sushi from chain restaurants, all really good. Rice, all kinds of rice, with vinegar, spicy, aromatic, sticky. 




I did not have a bad meal here. lol




Shopping: Things I am bringing back


Snacks. So. Many. Snacks. Kit Kats all flavors, gummies, weird flavored chips, and other snacks that I don't even know what they are. 

Thanks to the USD being strong against the JP Yen, electronics are so much cheaper here. This reason alone makes the trip worth it. 



Memories to Cherish




This trip was supposed to be about our oldest daughter, she had a senior trip here a week before we arrived and this is the last time we hang out before she heads out to college. I was glad to see her go ga-ga at the Nintendo Super Mario World at Universal Studios Osaka.  I will remember walking with my wife, holding hands in Tokyo Disneyland. I will remember all the dinners and tasty snacks we enjoyed. All the majestic architecture and the subtle beauty of the forest around Mt. Fuji. The cherry blossoms, the clear streams burbling on the smooth rocks. The old shrines, the quiet walks up the mountains. The busy Tsukiji Market with their fresh fish, meat and fruit smells. The shiny, loud and bustling shopping district in Shibuya. I'm taking all those memories with me. 

What would I do differently

Our youngest daughter had to stay because she didn't want to miss important school activities. Next time she is coming, We really missed her.  Learn how things work ahead of time. We didn't know how the Disney passes work. Other than that it was pretty painless. 




Conclusion




This was an amazing trip, I have to thank my wife M for putting it together. I promise I'll be more helpful next time, but she did an awesome job coming up with ideas for things that everyone will love.  Japan was a lovely trip. 






Monday, April 15, 2024

Hiroshima Peace Memorial

 


On August 6 1945 an atomic bomb was dropped on Hiroshima. I am writing these words less than a mile away from the center of the blast. It hard for me to believe that this bustling is standing on the site of a freaking nuclear blast. This morning we all went to the Memorial museum and it was an intense experience. The history books in the US don't show you the actual carnage. In fact, I thought that the whole city was pretty much vaporized and that the people that were killed didn't know what hit them. While that might be true for some of the victims. That wasn't the case at all for a lot of people. The victims of the bomb died slow, agonizing deaths. A lot of "survivors" died of cancer years later. This was hard to see. I felt...sad is not the word, it's something hard to describe. For me, this brought back memories of things I rather not think about. I never liked to see civilians getting hurt in Iraq and it was hard to see pictures of children burnt by the bomb. 

I like that Japan has embraced the Peace mentality and it's dedicated to nuclear disarmament. I like their statement on their museum basically saying that they will face the truth of their history and learn from it so that they don't make the same mistakes again. 

I'm glad I was able to come here. I am very impressed with the honesty in which Japan chooses to remember this chapter in history. 


JV

Monday, March 18, 2024

My review of "My Heart Is a Chainsaw" by Stephen Graham Jones on Goodreads

My Heart Is a Chainsaw (The Indian Lake Trilogy, #1)My Heart Is a Chainsaw by Stephen Graham Jones
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is an excellent book. I gave it four instead of five stars because I felt it was a bit too long, at four-hundred pages it felt longer than it needed.

Jade is a troubled teenager that knows everything there is to know about "slashers" horror films like Friday the 13th and Halloween. There's a killer in her little Idaho town and she immediatly realizes that she's in the middle of slasher herself, she must find the "final girl" to help her survive the imminent slaughter.

I like that the book is more than a good scary story. There's food for thought in there, commentary about social conditions of American's first people. There's also ton of slasher knowledge, you can tell the author is a slasher fan, you can totally see the Stephen King influences, specially the short story "The Raft" ...but I don't want to spoil it.

The neatest thing about the book was also the hardest for me to read. The author pulls off writing from the point of view of an slasher-obsessed teenage girl, at times her internal dialogue rambles away with forced metaphors or un-funny puns and it gets a little annoying, however it adds to the vibe of the book I suppose.

I picked up this book because I really enjoyed "The Only Good Indians" by the same author. That book gave me the heebie-jeebies for real. I was looking for a good scare. This book will give you that, but it's somehow "lighter" to read, not as horrific. If you are into that though, go ahead and read it, there's plenty of gore, blood and guts.

-JV

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Monday, March 11, 2024

Ten Years in Seattle



My wife and I fell in love with the PNW back in 2006. We went on a visit to Portland in the winter, it was literally the day I got my undergrad we went from the commencement ceremony straight to the airport, it was a nice trip. We ended up moving to Seattle in 2014 after 3 months of job-hunting, one failed interview at Amazon, a couple of false starts from Intel, finally a RFID company named Impinj gave me an offer and we haven't looked back. 

We wanted to raise our kids here, we liked that people here are educated and nicer, we love the mild weather, the mountains the tech scene. It's not perfect but we love it here. 


We lived in South Lake Union for the first five years. We wanted to know what it would be like to live in the middle of a city. Seattle in 2014 was growing fast, thanks to Amazon there were new building going up every week, and the atmosphere at the time felt exciting like Seattle was a boomtown. A new gold rush. 


Personally, we felt like this was an improvement. I was afraid that we weren't gong to like it, like it would be a big mistake. It was not. This is home now. 



We have made a life here. We bought a home in the Georgetown neighborhood 5 years ago and we want to stay. There are things about Seattle that annoy me, but I wouldn't want to live anywhere else. I do miss good Latin food and the beach, but Florida is in the past. 



I didn't realize then how this tech migration would affect the city, how the infrastructure was not ready to grow with the population influx. Home prices are inflated, Public transportation sucks (still better than South Florida) and the job market is unpredictable. If I knew then what I now know. I'd still would have moved. The PNW vibe, the laid-back culture that gave us grunge music, Starbucks and Twilight is it for me. I can never say I am from Seattle because I have lived in too many places but I definitely call this our home. 

Monday, February 26, 2024

My Review of "The Creative Act: A Way of Being" by Rick Rubin on GoodReads

The Creative Act: A Way of BeingThe Creative Act: A Way of Being by Rick Rubin
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is one of the best books I've read.

Rick Rubin gives us his philosophy for creating art. He warns us against the things that block creativity and provides wisdom and tips to foster our best work.

The books reads like daily meditations.

I liked the book so much I read it as slowly as possible because I didn't want to be done reading it. I liked to read a few pages at a time and thought about what it was saying.

I liked the author's style. His words read like taoist book of wisdom.

I liked the perspectives I gained from reading this. I can apply what I read to almost everything creative.

Excellent read

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Friday, February 23, 2024

On Writing

 I've been thinking about writing lately. 

I am going to write that book. I don't know when or what exactly will be in it but I've known for a while that my true calling is writing. Nothing gives me more joy than the simple act of creating ideas with words. I want to share my voice, my thoughts and experiences with the whole world. It really doesn't matter to me if nobody reads it, it's the act of creating that excites me. 

I haven't decided yet if I want to write fiction or memoirs. Novels or essays. Write about tech or write about politics. Why not all? Maybe, but one thing at the time and first things first. 

I have a lot to say about the war in Iraq. There are many war memoirs but there aren't any stories written from the perspective of a Venezuelan nerd with ADHD. I did my whole tour, did not leave my post, but I realized in Iraq that I am not a warrior, I freaking hate violence with all my heart. 

I have a lot to say about tech. I am fortunate to work in a place where I see the state of the art advance. I love to write code but I am not your typical tech-bro. How many Spanish Speaking people do you know work in big tech companies as engineers? Not many. 

I have a lot say about being a Dad. This is the thing that came more natural to me. Loving my kids is easy to do. Not sure I can bring anything new, but then again, maybe I should say it and write it down anyway. 

Stephen King had a quote about you are only a writer if you get paid, and use your paycheck to pay the water bill. So if you are starving, and use your words to pay the bills, then you are a writer. 

Hmm, well, I don't know. I do write at work. I write technical documents and I write software. Writing software is just another kind of writing, you have different audience, one is the machine that transform the code you write to machine instructions, but the most important audience is other programmers. When you write code, other coders will eventually go over your code when they need to change it or debug it. Well, I digress. My point is that I am writer already, but now I want to write more than software and technical docs. I want to share stories, opinions and whatever else comes to mind. 

Stay tuned. 

My Review of "Is Math Real?" by Dr. Eugenia Cheng on GoodReads

Is Maths Real? How Simple Questions Lead Us to Mathematics’ Deepest TruthsIs Maths Real? How Simple Questions Lead Us to Mathematics’ Deepest Truths by Eugenia Cheng
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

In this book the author wants to let people know that if you hate math it's more likely because of the way you were taught. In fact, if there are things that don't make sense to you and you've asked "dumb questions" then you probably think more like professional mathematicians.

I found this book through to Ali Ward's Ologies podcast

Dr. Cheng talks about many mathematical concepts with an explanation of why and how mathematicians come up with concepts. I was blown away in the section "why is 1 + 1 = 2" because it turns the question on its head. We should think about "When does 1 + 1 not equal 2" for example, when you are painting, if you have one color, adding another color gives you a new combined color, not two colors, in this case 1 + 1 = 1. So then a good definition of *when* does 1 + 1 = 2 is in order.

I like that Dr. Cheng hates it when people try to use math to make themselves sound smarter as if knowing these things makes you a better, superior person somehow (it does not, it's your character)

I liked the little commentary on current events sprinkled here and there, I suppose that some people will balk at that, that's fine by me.

I didn't like that the material for me was introductory, I didn't walk about with new mathematical theory (well, at the end she goes into her category theory research) but it's an introductory book aimed at people who don't do math.

Overall, this is an excellent book. Highly recommend it. Math if for you and for all of us.

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My Review of "The Nineties" by Chuck Klosterman on Goodreads

The Nineties: A BookThe Nineties: A Book by Chuck Klosterman
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This book is a collection of essays that cover different aspects of the 90's things like music, tv shows, the internet, politics, historical events of the era, etc. The author gives us his take on things and contrasts with how we see things today.

One main theme of the book is that people tend to judge the past through their current point of view. It's easy and tempting to judge history based on what we know now. He challenges that notion and tells us how we used to see and think differently.

I enjoyed this commentary, but to me, it's just that, commentary. Yeah there is some data and stats but this is a book filled with opinions and generalizations about a culture. Not that he's off the mark, but I don't know what to do with the information I just learned. Reading this felt like reading a entertaining article in a magazine...in the 90's. Fun, engaging but am I a different person after reading this? Did I gain a new perspective in life? Maybe not.

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Monday, January 29, 2024

My Review of "Exit Interview" by Kristi Coulter on Goodreads

Exit Interview: The Life and Death of My Ambitious CareerExit Interview: The Life and Death of My Ambitious Career by Kristi Coulter
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Exit interview covers Kristi Coulter's eleven years at Amazon. This memoir gives the reader an insider's view of the what is like to be a smart, capable woman in an the male-dominated, competitive world of Amazon corporate.

Kristi's frustrating journey comes across as honest and real. It helps that she is incredibly funny. The stories are incredible but as someone who has been at Amazon for five and half years (and counting) I believe 100% of what I read. I don't get to see sexism myself first hand because my team is mostly composed of men but I know enough to know it still happens.

A lot of the points brought up in this book resonate with me. I hate the fact that the women in tech problem is considered a "Pipeline" issue. It's also considered a women's issue or minority issue. When it should be considered a "everyone" problem. Particularly the group that can do the most to fix it: Men. (yes, myself included)

I recommend this book to anyone concerned with non-fiction current affairs. 10/10


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Thursday, January 25, 2024

My Review of "I've Been Thinking" by Daniel C. Dennett on GoodReads

I've Been ThinkingI've Been Thinking by Daniel C. Dennett
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

"I've Been Thinking" Is a memoir written by the philosopher, cognitive scientist and outspoken atheist Daniel C. Dennett.

This was a fun book, reading it felt like having a beer with a good, well-read friend, full of amusing stories and personal anecdotes. Did you know that Dennet's father was in the CIA? you didn't? sorry for the spoiler. Did you know that Dennet spent time living in Beirut in the 50's but ended up in a farm in Maine? Some people may find his stories pointless, but I enjoyed his description of life in Maine, his academic triumphs, intellectual curiosity and sharp, insightful questions.
I felt cringe when he called out "academic bullies" in the latter part of his book, it is petty to call out personal grievances with other famous authors out in public, even if some of them already
passed away. For some reason that didn't feel...classy.

I loved "Breaking the Spell" and "Intuition Pumps" but I was not able to get through his less political and more theoretical "Consciousness Explained" and "Darwin's Dangerous Ideas"
I say read this book for the journey, you won't be more enlightened in the philosophy of biology or know the nuances of what it means to have a conscious mind. You need to read his other books for that.

I recommend to read it in order to use his life as an example of a life well lived. When I am old, I, too want to be able to reminisce all the good times with my loved ones and my not-so-loved ones as well.



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